A C C E P T .

ACCEPT. What do people think when they saw this word ? I don't know. I just wanna tell something I feel about this word.

Recently, when I face with problems that involved some disgusting people, I try to accept .
I used to blame them or abuse them. But now, I try to accept instead of blaming.

I think : problems caused because of their personality , and I was only unfortunately involved. Why should I blame or abuse them and let my personality becomes so awful as their ?
And the problems cannot been solved by this way. So, I chose accept. Accept them as how they are and try to face problems by the right way.

Then , I found that this is really useful.
I treat people that I really dislike with better attitude. Then , I found that they treat me better as well. I do not know whether they felt that I changed, or they are actually like that, only because of I dislike them before, so I didn't feel it. Anyway, as long as problems can solve in a really easy way : choose accept instead of hate.

For those I really cannot accept, or even already tried to accept , but they are still unbearable, I chose to keep silence. I do not want to comment or say anything about what they do.
I still remember that somebody told me : You keep silence about something or someone, didn't mean that you agree. So, for those I used to quarrel with, don't think that I agree with the way you act, I'm only do not want to comment.


Choose accept or silence instead of hate and blame.
The simplest resolution.